One of the reasons I avoid conflict is because I don't like being wrong, and we tend to say things we regret when we're angry. On the other hand, if we don't vent those things sometimes and get them out in the open, it can do real damage. But I'm often not willing to do so because I'll say thing I regret and I'll have to say I'm sorry and I don't want to. There's something messed up in there.